5 tips to get to her heart

As complicated as the title may sound, it isn’t that difficult in reality.  If you talk about my personal opinion a woman’s heart is the easiest to get to.  It’s a deep ocean of mixed emotions, feelings, the depths soak up even the worst of the things.  

Wondering how to get to her heart? Here are a few tips 

1) Understand what kind of a person she is.  An emotional one?  Crazy one?  Strong headed?  This would determine the kind of approach you should follow.  

2) Start slow..slo..ow..

Yes, as cliché as it may sound be very careful of the initial steps you take because that’s practically most that shall decide your future with her bwoy. Don’t freak her out by asking her to get married to you on the first date.  

3) Take care of the little things that matter to her. Her dog’s birthday?  Hah? Duh call her.  She’s got an exam tomorrow?  Make it a point to wish her in the morning right before she’s about to leave for it.  She might not show but thes things really make a difference.  It not only tells that you care about her but also reflects the kind of person you are.  

4) Be very respectful of her parents, siblings, friends basically everyone she cares about in general.  No girl would ever appreciate a guy saying anything against her parents.  Being respectful shall almost double your chances of you impressing her.  And being disrespectful?  Haha. You don’t even stand a chance.  

5) Just “BE YOURSELF” 

Yessss!  Nothing melts a girl’s heart more than a person being his true self with her and not caring about the fact that people will judge them.  As important as other tips are this is practically the most crucial one.  

Those were the few simple but sure shot tips that can pave your way to a girl’s heart 😉

Good luck.  

Sending each one of you loads of positive vibes.  

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What makes “HER” happy?

One of the most important question that mankind all over the globe practically fails to talk about is that even in this modern high-tech world where there are conferences, lectures and what not over the fact that : Women and men are equal, women empowerment, equal rights and fraternity etc.

We fail to acknowledge the fact that this isn’t what women want! Talking about the basics we really need to understand that the happiness of a woman doesn’t really dwells in the big cars, mansions, fancy kitchens, outfits! (we don’t mind good dresses though :P)

Her happiness majorly depends in simple little things. For a woman who does her household it may be her kids which make her happy, the one who is a working type may experience happiness in getting her job done and getting some praise for that. Hence, we need to accept each and every woman as and how she is and give her an EQUAL opportunity to practice her freedom and independency! She’ll love you for it!

 

Woman are simple beings they just want to be well understood.

Happy womanhood. 🙂

 

 

Just ‘Girly’ stuff ;)

So yeah, ladies..

Here is your daily instant boost of self-confidence and other little things..

Feeling a bit low? because a guy ditched you? or nervous over tomorrow’s presentation? or because something in the recent past lowered your self esteem and made you forget all the good heroic deeds you ever did! Duh.

Look at yourself in the mirror right now. SEE what an astounding creation you are. Mankind is just generously gifted that they have you.  Lol , Jk ! Haha.

But seriously what is it that makes you feel so bad about yourself? I am sure whatever it is, it ain’t important. What is important is that you believe in yourself that no matter what you are ‘The Best’. Do not let anyone for that matter tell you what you have to do or where you have to stop or what is your limit. Why? Because you don’t have any. YES! Say it to yourself in the mirror “I am the Best. I can accomplish anything and everything by God’s grace”. And, you sure will! You will.

 

It is  humble request to all the Lovely Ladies out there.

“Don’t let your soul be defined by it’s shell.”

You are a lot more than it.

Way to go girl!

Best wishes!

What “SHE” thinks?

They all say to understand a woman’s mind is an impossible task. But I contradict..

I have come up with a shorter and a more precise definition of a woman’s thinking .

Honestly, We girls agree that we think differently from men. we have more complex thoughts but we will never say it in front of you.

When it comes to thinking, we may have an altogether different approach towards a particular situation, we might tackle it differently but that doesn’t necessarily mean that we are wrong. All we expect of you men is to allow us to voice our opinions in the way we want. Let us be absolutely free in blurting it out without thinking twice. Yes, we like it when someone contradicts us as much as men do but that shouldn’t be mixed with the thought of enforcing someone’s opinion onto us.

All we want is to be independent in our thoughts and emotions.. We respect yours, You are suppose to respect ours. It just can’t be one way around. Reciprocation is the key.

Precisely,

“WE” think that a man is suppose to respect and accept us and out thoughts in the same way as we accept theirs.

Preach what you practice!

What “SHE” wants?

In a world where many people feel that a happy woman is a myth, I stand alone believing in the exact opposite.

This is I suppose one of the most frequently thought about question which very few of us are able to even think of answering it.

So yes, here it is..

What “SHE” wants?

“SHE” here can be you friend, mother, granny or any other woman for that matter..

All “We” want is to be what we’ve always wanted to be and just live the life being our ownselves. We donot like being dictated about every damn thing (though a lil guidance doesn’t hurt :p) ,
we are readily happy doing the household chores but when we don’t feel like we won’t do it.. You are no one to judge.
We are just God’s created creatures just like you but with a little more complex mind than yours.

We are no aliens.

“All we want is someone to accept us for what we are and not just for the sake of it.”

Expand your mind people.
Grow! 🙂

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Girl! Be your own Hero!

One of the probable reasons you are reading this is because recently something in the past made you feel dependent on others or maybe because you have just began the quest of how to be  a ‘Superwoman’.

Voila! You are at the right place.

Okay so let me put this  straight up, if you want to excel in life, “YOU” yourself have to work for it. Your husband, your dad, you best friend they just can’t do this for you. I am sure they love you a lot and you are the ‘apple’ of the their eyes but hey! Even they cannot change your whole life on their own. They can guide you, motivate you and provide you with the best facilities and stuff but they can’t make it possible for you.
But then who can make it possible?
Who can change your life for good?
Wondering..?
The answer is simple, it’s YOU.
Yes, you can change the life you’ve been blessed with to make it more awesome. To make it Lovely. And thinking which all cliffs you’ll have to climb etc etc? Relax! All you have to do is just Believe in yourself and work for everything good you want in your life.

Stop acting like a dependent bird waiting to be fed, instead be a Lion(or lioness :P) and hunt each day.
Say it to yourself everyday you wake up, I am the best and I can do everything on my own by God’s grace. And start Believing in it!
There is no one YOU’er than YOU.
Trust me, you will feel  much better.
Even men all around the world encourage a woman who believes in the fact that she is all she needs.

Believe in being your own Hero!

Because no one can do it better than “YOU”.

Afterall, who doesn’t like a girl who believes in herself? It’s really very attractive!  😉

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